What is a aunt or uncle?

2 min readUpdated 19 October 2026

Short answerYour aunt or uncle is a sibling of your parent. You are their niece or nephew: the child of their sibling. You share grandparents, and a full aunt or uncle shares about 25% of your DNA on average.

The family line, drawn out

Follow the highlighted line from you up to the shared ancestor and down to them.

Shared ancestoryour grandparentParentyour parentYoustart hereThemyour aunt or uncle
2 generations up from you, 1 down to them.

How to work it out

Go up 2 generations from you to a shared grandparent, then 1 down to their child. That child is a sibling of your parent, which makes them your aunt or uncle.

Their spouse or partner is your aunt or uncle by marriage. Their children are your first cousins.

What to call each other

Them, to youYou, to them
Femaleauntniece
Maleunclenephew
Anyoneaunt or uncleniece or nephew

Their family and yours

Relationships shift by one step for each generation. Here is how the people around them relate to you:

Their childfirst cousin
Their parent on the shared linegrandparent
Your child sees them as your child’sgreat-aunt or uncle
Your parent sees them as your parent’ssibling
What they call youniece or nephew

Shared DNA

On average, full aunts and uncles share about 25% of their DNA. That figure is the expected value: it halves with every generation of separation, and real amounts vary from person to person. A half relationship (through only one shared ancestor instead of a couple) shares about half as much: 12.5%.

Let Family Trees name it for you

In Family Trees, open anyone’s page to see how they are related to you in plain words, or choose any two people under How are they related?. The app counts the shortest blood line through birth and adoptive parents, names step, foster and in-law relations too, and uses exactly the words on this page. It’s free for a family of up to 100 people. You can also try the relationship calculator here.

Questions

What is a aunt or uncle?

Your aunt or uncle is a sibling of your parent. You are their niece or nephew: the child of their sibling.

How much DNA do you share with a aunt or uncle?

About 25% on average. Each generation of separation halves the expected amount, and individual results vary.

What is my aunt or uncle’s child to me?

Your first cousin.